Easter

Easter Sunday.  

A day to reflect on the beautiful gift God gave us and the sacrifice His son made to save us. 

Also a day to run around the yard hunting for candy-filled plastic eggs. 

Carter sort of got the concept.

He picked up a few eggs and put them into his basket........

then he decided to visit the neighbors.

Then he figure out that if he worked at it (or threw it on the ground) he could get the egg opened.

This is Carter watching the candy fall to the ground......moments later he knelt down to pick up and eat the candy.  A little dirt never hurt anyone right?  

When Uncle Mason and his friends came out and got on the trampoline, he pretty much lost interest in the eggs.  He wanted to jump. 

 Thanks boys for being patient with him!  


It was a great day  with the family. Happy Easter everyone!

Over the fence with ease.

People without children may not understand this.......people with children will get what I am talking about.  These are simple lessons that as a parent we must learn and sometime we learn them in a way we might not like.  We love you Jon, Stacey, and Scott, Thanks for a wonderful dinner!!

We were invited to go out to dinner last Saturday with some friends.   It was a Facebook invitation sent out a couple weeks ago.   We RSVP'd  2+ a high chair.  We were excited.  We had not seen them and they had not seen Carter in a while.  So it was going to be fun to catch up. 

Friday morning, the day before the dinner, I got a text from one of them saying, their sister would watch Carter if we wanted a break.  I took this as a big "hint" that maybe Carter was not invited to the party. 

Lesson # 1  As a parent if you are invited to an event, it is your job and obligation to see if children are allowed to join in the festivities. 

So we found a sitter for Saturday night.  No big deal just a little short notice.  The people we were having dinner with came down early for the spring football game. Yeah I live in a state where the Spring Scrimmage of the big college football team is like any other game day, complete with tailgated and a sell out crowd of 86,000 plus.  


 So we were at home doing laundry and other odd jobs until it was time to get ready.    At 4:20, dinner was at 6:30, Peter got a text that the game was over and they were on their way over.  I had just woken up from a nap and Carter was still sleeping. Ten minutes later the door bell rings, the dog starts barking, and Carter wakes up.  I still in my P.J.'s, hair piled on my head and not a lick of make-up, go to the door, because Peter is in the shower.   I open the door and shocked, no more like stunned, faces greet me.   

"Uhh..we totally woke you up didn't we?  You had no idea we were coming. Did we wake up Carter? " the three of them say pretty much in unison.  The other couple, Whom I had never met surveyed me in wary silence. 

"Nope, I just found out 10 minutes ago. Carter was asleep but is awake now.  Peter is in the shower, I need to shower too.  Come on in!" I reply. 

"We need to go to the book store, we will go  and meet you later."  The three of them again in unison say some version of that.  

"No no, come on in it is fine you drove all the way out here.  Come in."  I insist.  

"No we will just go to the book store.   Then we will head over and get a table.  Do you think you can come earlier like 5:30?"  Again not sure which one said all this so we will just say all of them. 

Lesson #2  Deep breathing is an excellent practice to start early.  Lamaze is not only good for labor but also good to stay calm when things are going awry while you raise your children.

"Uhhhh....I will have to call the sitter and see if we can drop him off earlier.  Then I will text you and let you know."  I say

"Oh... yeah yeah,  just let us know.  We will probably have to wait for a table anyway."  they say.

"Ok well, thanks guys we will see you in a bit."  I say as they leave and I close the door.  So we now have less than an hour for me to shower, get ready, load up the car, take carter to the sitter and get to the restaurant.  (Then began a flurry of activity) So we drop Carter off at the sitter an make it back down town by shortly after 6. (by some miracle it was even that early)  Dinner was great, the food was good, the conversation was excellent and the company was fun.  We love our friends and wish we could get together with them more, but alas they live in a different town, so it is not as often as we would like.   


As dinner is wrapping up we begin talk of what to do next....should we go grab a drink at Starlight or go to Yia Yia's and play some pool and try one of their vast varieties of imported beer.   During this talk the couple who came to my home that I did not know are sitting across the table in close conversation.  (I must inject here that I had never met these people and only briefly enjoyed their company through dinner.  I hold no ill will toward them as I don't know them well enough to have any sort of opinion of them.)    Once the decision was made to head to Yia Yia's we get the bill and begin to gather our things.  The couple suddenly pipe in and say "We would actually like to get home." 


Silence from the other side of the table as Peter, myself and our friends digest what was said.  They had driven down together so that meant they would all be leaving. Bummer.   So the evening turned out to be dinner with them and then Peter and I going out for a drink.  It was a nice little date for us  and turned out to be really fun.  


Lesson #3  When it comes to the best laid plans, things often never go the way you think they will and it is better just to roll with.   

And the Thunder Rolls

On Thursday we had the first real "spring" rain.  The kind of rain that you want to stand outside in.    The kind you can smell.  The kind that makes everything smell....fresh.  I love that kind of rain.   See how beautiful, the sun barely peeking through the clouds. 

It was great until Friday morning when the temperature plummeted and it continued to rain....and rain....and get colder to where it was actually sleeting. Not completely unheard of in April for the Cornhusker State, and yet just as miserable.  I had to drive in this rain...eeww!

The only good thing about the rain is that the flowers will soon be popping out.

Not this one though,  this is one from a bouquet I bought.  It was lovely.

This is Carter waving to me at daycare. We have had a rough week and Mommy needed that.